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Sometimes
writing is too complicated and too “against
the rules,” especially in the early
days of treatment. Try using old magazines,
newspapers, advertisements, and telephone
books, etc. as tools for self expression and
system communication. Look through these printed
materials and cut or tear out any picture,
word, or phrase that seems relevant.
Let
the internal system help pick out these pictures
and words, too, even if you are not sure why
they want that particular picture. It is very
important to not edit or limit the choices
of your system, as all of your parts will
have their own things to say, and will relate
to pictures in a very different way one from
another. Don’t be alarmed if you don’t
understand why some of the pictures are selected.
As you get to know the parts inside that selected
those pictures, they will tell you the relevance
and meaning involved.
Don’t
push everyone who is selecting the cut-out’s
to talk about everything at once. You can
easily overload and overwhelm yourself if
you start demanding explanations for every
picture or phrase that is selected. Give the
entire system time to explain their choices
with you.
If you find that lots of your parts are doing
this exercise at once, you can either make
different piles for the pictures that belong
to different folks, or just cut out everything
you see and separate the piles of pictures
into themes at a later point. I have known
people to be working on dozens of tiny collages
all at the same time. I have also known people
to assemble gigantic collages on huge poster
boards. Use whatever style works for best
for you! Your creative expression is very
important.
The purpose of the collage is to provide another
way to tell without telling. Using groupings
of pictures and cut out words or phrases can
help to say things that you are not allowed
to say directly. Any form of expression is
helpful in the therapeutic process, even if
some of it stays unclear for a long while.
Another added benefit to this exercise is
that you will get to know your system parts
better. You might recognize patterns for who
leans towards what type of pictures. You might
hear a new voice that you don’t recognize
insisting on a picture that has absolutely
no relevance to you. Tending to everyone will
help to include the whole system and lead
to greater trust and internal connection.
Collage work can help with the processing
of traumatic memories. You might see entire
storylines be displayed right in front of
you in the groupings of magazine pictures.
You might develop a greater awareness for
whom in your system dealt with what types
of abusive situations.
To
process the information that has surfaced
during this journaling exercise, click here
for a clinical
consultation.
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